I can't say it better than Keith. If something that is *not* specifically directed to you upsets you, the problem is YOURS, not the poster's.
I absolutely refuse to report abuse anymore, or even to give a thumbs down, because I am an adult, and I don't need to run crying to the nannies at YA.
I am TRYING to learn to be more tolerant, because my life goes along a lot better if I am not constantly angry at trivial stuff that has nothing to do with me.
I wish they'd do away with the thumbs and the flags. Most people here are capable of settling their differences, if Yahoo would only trust them enough to do that instead of taking it out of members' hands.
Oops, I think that may have been a rant.