what should u do if u have been paying ur girlfriends way in the dance club every...

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william c

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...sat night but at 1 time? should u ask her would she pay ur way in or would u just let it go and leave it up to her? we have been togther for 1 year and 2 months and she tells me she loves me and i love her. if she loves and cares about me like she says she does don,t u think she should pay my way in? after all i have been paying our way in for so long but it just so happened that i picked up my check last friday and i did not get 1 this week.
 
If you've been together for over a year, you should be able to talk openly with each other at this point. Tell her that you would like it if she would pay your way in once in a while since you're a little short on cash right now. If you don't tell her you have a problem, she will never know, and the situation won't work itself out. If she really loves you, she will either say "Of course, I'll pay your way in" or she will say "We don't have to go to the club this week if you don't have the money" or something along those lines. If she's really materialistic and she's one of those people that believes the man should pay for EVERYTHING no matter what, then you guys really need to sit down and have a much more serious talk, because it sounds like you don't feel that way all the time, even though you love her and you do like paying for her most of the time.
 
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