What should I do. My dad "forbids" me to date outside my culture. ?

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My dad told me he wouldn't want to talk to me if I dated guys who were not German. He doesn't like me being gay but he barely accepts it. I have dated one Chilean and one British but I didn't tell him. I only see my dad some times each year. He lives in Bavaria far away from me. He would prefer to see me together with a German with blue eyes, he said. What should I do?
 
i think your dad is being really silly... the reason that germans usually date people of the same ethnicity is to preserve some of the physical qualities in their children (for example, brown eyes dominate over blue eyes)..... but since gay men don't procreate i don't understand what his problem is....

maybe it's a way to 'control' you.... like he'll say he accepts your homosexuality but then he makes it near impossible to find someone who meets his requirements.

don't be alone.... find love on your own terms
 
You are a grown man. You have got to live you life. If he doesn't accept you as you are, that's him. You can't alter your life for his sake. He will come to his sense sometime if he wants to be in your life.
 
if you live in America Tell him German "Bavarian" blood is everywhere it's called the "American Melting pot" were are quite proud to be one of only a handful of nations able to claim such a thing
 
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