Capitaine Des Mers
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i work as a receptionist at an accounting firm and on saturday i pointed out to my boss he had written a cheque out wrong, he said no he didn't, i said yes, see, and pointed to the paperwork that showed the figure he had written was the tax refund amount, he hadn't deducted our fee.
he then said no that was your fault and i said no it wasn't, he wrote the cheque for the wrong amount.
anyway to cut the stupid argument short it ended with him shouting at me like a psycho saying "it's not my bloody fault" and i mean like a PSYCHO. i've never seen anyone yell like that, i actually felt threatened so i dropped the paperwork on his desk and left and as i walked out i told him to shove his attitude up his a*se (very immature of me i know)
the thing is, it shouldn't have been a big deal, i was just letting him know so in future he wouldn't make the same mistake and to let him know that i would need to write out another cheque. i think the reason he went so crazy is because he hasn't been taking his medication for his diabetes so i realise he wouldn't have been so nuts if he was taking care of himself, but the fact is that i wouldn't let my family members, people i love, treat me like that and i'm certainly not paid enough by him to be treated like that especially when i've come into work on a saturday when i don't have to.
so now i don't know what to do, i thought he would have called to apologise but he hasn't. i'm supposed to be working tomorrow and i know he's not going to be in the office tomorrow, also my dad works as an accountant there and the other accountant is on my side too. the other receptionist walked out of the office after me because of the way he yelled at me and my dad doesn't think she will be going back.
i could use the money but i do have a second job to fall back on, i just don't quite know what to do. i think i will go back, but do i then not say anything about the incident? i feel like i need to apologise for what i said as i stormed out (also i already had my bag and stuff on my arm because it was home time anyway so i didn't walk out early) but i am not apologising if he thinks he has nothing to apologise for. i want to tell him the way he spoke to me was not ok and i won't put up with it again but will that just make things worse?
i know this is long but i really apreciate any help, thanks
he then said no that was your fault and i said no it wasn't, he wrote the cheque for the wrong amount.
anyway to cut the stupid argument short it ended with him shouting at me like a psycho saying "it's not my bloody fault" and i mean like a PSYCHO. i've never seen anyone yell like that, i actually felt threatened so i dropped the paperwork on his desk and left and as i walked out i told him to shove his attitude up his a*se (very immature of me i know)
the thing is, it shouldn't have been a big deal, i was just letting him know so in future he wouldn't make the same mistake and to let him know that i would need to write out another cheque. i think the reason he went so crazy is because he hasn't been taking his medication for his diabetes so i realise he wouldn't have been so nuts if he was taking care of himself, but the fact is that i wouldn't let my family members, people i love, treat me like that and i'm certainly not paid enough by him to be treated like that especially when i've come into work on a saturday when i don't have to.
so now i don't know what to do, i thought he would have called to apologise but he hasn't. i'm supposed to be working tomorrow and i know he's not going to be in the office tomorrow, also my dad works as an accountant there and the other accountant is on my side too. the other receptionist walked out of the office after me because of the way he yelled at me and my dad doesn't think she will be going back.
i could use the money but i do have a second job to fall back on, i just don't quite know what to do. i think i will go back, but do i then not say anything about the incident? i feel like i need to apologise for what i said as i stormed out (also i already had my bag and stuff on my arm because it was home time anyway so i didn't walk out early) but i am not apologising if he thinks he has nothing to apologise for. i want to tell him the way he spoke to me was not ok and i won't put up with it again but will that just make things worse?
i know this is long but i really apreciate any help, thanks