What should i do? *MILITARY LOVE*?

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Rell

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H i... ok.. i was set up on a blind date by my best friend and I ended up falling in love with him. We have known each other for 2 years and honestly it has been the best 2 years of my life!He is 23 years old and i am 22, he has never been in love (and i think that has come from issues within his parents divorce) so with that said we took things very slow which is a good thing. I love his family and everything this man stands for. A year into us dating off and on I got a great job offer which required me to go back to school so i went out of state to a college but came home often on weekends. He was very understanding and he let me go further my education. So he sat me down towards the end of the school year and talked to me about him deciding to join the army and i support him 100% with all of his decisions, he told me that the reason he doesn't want to get to involved is because he wants to get his career together so when he is ready he can get married and support his family, and that if he wasn't leaving for 4 years for the military it would be me and him. Which is well understood! So of course i started crying because for the 1st time in my life my heart has picked a winner and he has to leave. Its been 4 months now we keep in touch and the feelings are still there but things are still hard...dealing with peoples comments like ' oh he is going to iraq u should Just get over him' like wtf r u kidding me?! This man is one of my best friends and i love him point blank. I hope that someone maybe jus maybe has been in a similar situation and had a good out come. If not your advice is well appreciated. Thanks!!
 
Let him go for Military training .. he will be settled and asked you too have further studies.

this is ur true love with responsibilities . don't care about others comments keep faith on your love.

Every thing will be fine. after he come back from his job you will be the most happiest person in this world.
 
I am sort of in the same situation, except my boyfriend is away playing minor league baseball. He is about 9 hours away from me, and I am so sad! I hear people say to me all the time to dump him and find someone else because long distance relationships don't work, and so on, but I am always like "No way, I love him." I know for sure that this guys is the one I am going to marry. I was upset at first when he left-- I was really attached to him (we lived together a bit before he left). I couldn't eat, sleep, or function when he left. I am just starting to get over that and am feeling better. I know he will be coming back in the fall, so I am excited about that. But, I am still upset. So, I know what you mean. He is my best friend also--we did almost everything together. In my advice: just support him, give him compliments all the time-- find things to be positive about because for every negative thing, there are five positives. Everything will be just fine, and will work out. Trust me-- I am surviving! Ha ha! And, good luck with everything-- if it wasn't for people like your man, our country would be a catastrophe, so good for him!
 
u should ive no shit to the person who told u to give up. i mean it doesn't mean that just cuz he's going to war, he'll end up in a pile of dust. soldiers do come back from the war alive. well if that's the case then why can't ur man come back alive as well? there are many women just like you who wait 4 their husbands to come back. well at least u two r staying in contact, so u know he's alive. as long as u keept talking 2 each other, u should have no doubt about him coming back
 
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