I just found out this guy likes me, doesn't know how to act around me, the problem is I was told to go slow with him bc women have taken advantage of his body, he's been hurt very badly. Why am I so angry with him and disgusted with him bc of this? This happend way before when he was in the marines and now he's been out of the service for 3 yrs. I don't know what to do, honestly? I don't trust him. Ive known him since high school, Ive learn the hard way that people change when they get out of high school. Well, the problem is he's the flirty, joking around type with women and with his past he's had a lot of drunken flings, but now he's very level- headed about situations, I don't know if they past has changed him, he's learned from it but i haven't talked to him and people are judging him right away that he's a Ho, not to date him but I never heard his side of the story yet of what exactly happend in his past. The problem is he watches porno videos now, jokes around about the booty, makes sarcastic remarks like "back then Hoes didn't want me, now hot hoes all over me". NOw, I'm mean to him bc I'm insecure that he will sleep with me bc of his past one night stands, thinking that "hm. Girl's have done it to me, so why not do it to other girls who are innocent, that's what I fear inside my head. Then also I fear that he isn't loyal, but i don't know yet bc I haven't tried. It's the fear inside me that's holding me back. I tell him to let me go, to tell him to leave me alone. I'm trying to push him away but I like him bc of my fears. I only know him from when he was younger, its been about 9 yrs since I talked to him up front. What should I do? He keeps driving around my house, trying to get my attention or his friends stalking me or his sister, I don't understand him at all. He doesn't wanna let me go. What should I do?
