What should I do about my sexuality, im confused?

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Thomas

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Well, I have had a couple of girlfriends and a lot of sex with females growing up. Im a 27yr old man and I just cant come to a decision on what I like. I have had sex with 4 transgender women and I liked it. I even was a bottom on to occasions and I liked it. The thing is that now im not sure if I want a natural born women with a vagina or a post-op transgender women. I started to show interested in transgender women when I was 20yrs old and since then I have been confused. The thing that bothers me the most is that if anybody found out, then I would be a homosexual and people would talk bad about me etc........ Then im really concerned about what my family would think and I have a daughter that's five and what will I tell her when she gets older? For some reason women with a vagina doesn't turn me on as much as it use to. I dont know how or why I started to like post-op transgender women? To be honest im a bit scared because the feeling will not go away. No matter how much I try to tell myself it was just a phase, it doesnt work! Im trying really hard to force myself to be with a natural born women, but I cant escape the thought of liking transgender women. I dont know if its just the sex that I like and if it is im still not sexually attracted to women anymore. I need some feedback and advice. Im really serious about this.
Ooooops..... I meant to say "Pre- op" or pre operation.
 
Just so we're both clear, a fully post-op transgender woman is going to have a vagina. It's surgically constructed, yes, but she'll have one. If you're talking about her having both breasts and a penis, that's kind of a mid-op thing, because she's done the top but not the bottom.

Second, liking transgender women does not make you homosexual. They're called transgender WOMEN for a reason. They are women and deserve to be both thought of and treated as such. Furthermore, there's really nothing wrong with it. Is it a tad uncommon? Yeah. But it's only a problem if you freak out and label it a major issue. Take a breath, admit it to yourself, and then move on.

Your daughter is only five? Great. Start her education young before the bigots get a hold of her: there's nothing wrong with being gay, lesbian, bisexual, transsexual, transvestite, pansexual, omnisexual, asexual, or anything else in the category. When she gets older, if she even cares, you can explain what your preferences are. If she turns out anything like the majority of kids, she's not going to want to know anything about your sex life, she's going to care whether or not you fed her when she was hungry, helped her with her homework, and made sure she felt loved and cared for. That Daddy likes a minority type of women is going to be very low on the list of her concerns unless you fail to teach her that people are people, no matter who they love or how they feel about themselves, and people deserve some basic respect and kindness.
 
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