Mia Holland
New member
I moved about 9 months ago so I've been texting my old friends a lot lately. I have one friend in particular whom I've known since 7th grade and he likes me and wants me to have sex with him. I don't have the same feelings for him but I still want to be friends. I repeat: I DO NOT want to have sex with him! Besidses I'm only 16 and I don't wanna be known as some whore or anything like that 'cause that's not who I am. Nor will I sleep with someone just because someone wants me to and I'd rather find someone I actually like. I'm not ready for sex and I have all the time in the world for it with someone I do like, etc. Plus I'll probably regret it.
ANYWAYS...back to my question/point, when we text, he always brings up how he wants to do me and trying to get me to and I should send him dirty pictures and shit. Overall, sex/sexual discussions are brought up. I don't wanna go out with him or anything, furthermore have sex with him!! He seems like he just wants sex and he wants to be my first time. I just want it to stop cause it's getting annoying and I don't want the pressure. (Most males think about this crap though, but still). What should I do?! Do I need to talk to someone - if so, who?....?
ANYWAYS...back to my question/point, when we text, he always brings up how he wants to do me and trying to get me to and I should send him dirty pictures and shit. Overall, sex/sexual discussions are brought up. I don't wanna go out with him or anything, furthermore have sex with him!! He seems like he just wants sex and he wants to be my first time. I just want it to stop cause it's getting annoying and I don't want the pressure. (Most males think about this crap though, but still). What should I do?! Do I need to talk to someone - if so, who?....?