What should be done? My live in boyfriend demand I reveal to him my child...

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Brookelynn

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...support decree paid by my ex husband? I think its private! My boyfriend has nothing to do with the financial agreement my ex husband and I set up for our children. He keeps pressuring me to disclose this to him.

My boyfriend and I have been living together for 4yrs and when we picked a place it was based on his income and mine NOT MY KIDS CHILD SUPPORT! please help, enlighten me on some ways I can get him to back off and see that he is unreasonable. I think he is insecure that my ex and I get along well and have finally reached closure with our failed marriage. Together we are great parents.

I love my boyfriend and want things to work but, I also need him to respect my privacy. What would you say?
IF WE WERE MARRIED OF COURSE, I WOULD DISCLOSE ALL FINANCES AND CREDIT TO MY HUSBAND!
BOYFRIEND = PRIVATE FINANCIAL
 
I agree it is none of his business, but in keep the peace you could share with him the amount that is going towards supporting the kids and make it very clear that money is ONLY for supporting the kids. There should be no more discussion after that as there would be nothing to discuss.
 
If you're living together then you should take responsibility for everything together. That includes money. Why can't you just tell him?
 
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