What makes you think affairs are about sex and love? Because they aren't!?

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AKAO4D

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Why do people think affairs about love or sex? I have noticed here that people think outside marriage attention is sex and love. Did it occur to you that it might be a lack of communication, appreciation or intimacy. Intimacy is not always sex. Why do you feel outside marriage activity is always about sex and love?
 
in anyway, whatever the reason, it is wrong. if you aren't gettin enough attention at home, it's time for devorce.
 
I think they're an emotional thing rather than sexual. Most of the time anyway. If someone is cheating for sex there's obviously more problems in their relationship than lack of sex.
 
Affairs are about satisfying something you aren't getting from your marriage. It could be lust, attention, love or any number of other things.
 
Wouldn't communication, appreciation and intimacy fall under the "Love" category?
 
Good question. Sometimes it is about sex and love, but not always. We can communicate and show appreciation to others, and it is usually not viewed as cheating except by the extremely insecure people. But once the emotional or sexual affair happens, that is when we declare that yes there is a problem. I think this has something to do with it.
 
If i was gettin laid on a regular basis then i could deal with all the other stupid problems just by drinking. not getting laid is the only thing that booze doesn't fix.
 
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