So I am in desperate need of opinions here. Serious ones.
So, my boyfriend and I have been dating a little over a year now. We live a few hours away so we have been doing the whole long distance thing. I can honestly say that I love him from the bottom of my heart. Months ago I found out how a few months after we were dating he and one of his exes started talking again behind my back. They would say how they liked each other and how he was thinking about leaving me for her and stuff. This went on without my knowing for probably about a month or two. I saw him a few times between then and never suspected a thing. He ended up stopping it all himself and told her that he couldn't do that to me. (Some people think he just realized that the two of them wouldn't work out so stuck with me)
I know it was awhile ago but sometimes it still gets to me. I think the main reason why it does still get to me is because he admitted that he still thinks more of her. We talk about it all the time and the reasons I can just not understand. Today we were talking and he said that he thinks more of her because she is more outgoing and has a bigger ***? He swore up and down that those were the only two things. I then asked him what he thought about me in comparison to her. He named several things. "That I am an all around better person, nicer, much more beautiful, better boobs." After he named all these things, how can anyone not be confused. How do her two things out rule everything he said about me? How does he still think more of her? Is there something he is not telling me? Do you think he might still have feelings for her? I asked how that even makes sense and he said I don't know. Sorry. He swears he is telling me everything and he really isn't a pervert, I just asked for him to tell me straight up. Even still, it just doesn't make sense. How does that even out to being more?
Please help me):
I am SO confused.
Is it me or is something missing?
Do you think he still has feelings for her?
Ahh oh, and he did kiss an ex a few days after we started dating. He stopped, got up and said he couldn't do that to me. He said that he considers what he did with both girls cheating though.
http://tinypic.com/r/2d2je42/4
Here we are, just so you can get an idea
So, my boyfriend and I have been dating a little over a year now. We live a few hours away so we have been doing the whole long distance thing. I can honestly say that I love him from the bottom of my heart. Months ago I found out how a few months after we were dating he and one of his exes started talking again behind my back. They would say how they liked each other and how he was thinking about leaving me for her and stuff. This went on without my knowing for probably about a month or two. I saw him a few times between then and never suspected a thing. He ended up stopping it all himself and told her that he couldn't do that to me. (Some people think he just realized that the two of them wouldn't work out so stuck with me)
I know it was awhile ago but sometimes it still gets to me. I think the main reason why it does still get to me is because he admitted that he still thinks more of her. We talk about it all the time and the reasons I can just not understand. Today we were talking and he said that he thinks more of her because she is more outgoing and has a bigger ***? He swore up and down that those were the only two things. I then asked him what he thought about me in comparison to her. He named several things. "That I am an all around better person, nicer, much more beautiful, better boobs." After he named all these things, how can anyone not be confused. How do her two things out rule everything he said about me? How does he still think more of her? Is there something he is not telling me? Do you think he might still have feelings for her? I asked how that even makes sense and he said I don't know. Sorry. He swears he is telling me everything and he really isn't a pervert, I just asked for him to tell me straight up. Even still, it just doesn't make sense. How does that even out to being more?
Please help me):
I am SO confused.
Is it me or is something missing?
Do you think he still has feelings for her?
Ahh oh, and he did kiss an ex a few days after we started dating. He stopped, got up and said he couldn't do that to me. He said that he considers what he did with both girls cheating though.
http://tinypic.com/r/2d2je42/4
Here we are, just so you can get an idea