We all have our limits, our bottom line. the line that if our spouse crossed would be it for us. We would leave the marriage or relationship without looking back. Some people will be doormats and put up with far more than others & some people should be commended for sticking it out and working through an affair. We are all different and our tolerance varies to such a huge extent. What is your bottom line> If he/she cheated? Cheated & remorseful genuinely wants to work it out? Lies about little things? Big things? Cheats in other areas? Is gay? Physically abusive? Verbally &Emotionally abusive? Ia addicted to drugs or alcohol, gambling? Internet porn, emotional affair? Not enough sex? You just not that turned on anymore? C'mon your bottom line, you are out the door no second chance & EXPLAIN WHY PLEASE