What is wrong with me?!?! I love sex so why is this happening?

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Well I'm 23 years old and I'm married. At first it was my husband who didn't want to have sex. He always said he was tired (no he wasn't cheating. We do everything together ). Lately I'm the one who doesn't doesn't want to have sex with him. I could really care less. The problem is that i know I love sex, so why don't i want to have sex anymore?
 
You need to talk to a doctor. It could be a hormone imbalance or something worse.
 
your bored with him is my bet..happened to me before.
maybe change it up a little bit, do something fun together..drive home and do it in the car on the way home. lol. always fun... just don't let a cop see you, because thats embarassing, believe me.
 
You've been rejected too many times that you've kind of given up, You've been unsatisfied for a little too long and now he needs to start engaging into foreplay and give you lots of one on one attention and then you'll come around quicker. You're just tired of not having any.
 
ugh i hear ya. i am going through the SAME EXACT THING! i love sex and im always completly satisfied and i love him i am just stressed out with work (50 hrs a week) and school part time. you need to evaluate your schedual and not be so down on your self. it was hard for me to accept it as well.
 
Stress, fatigue, busy schedule, health, lack of sleep, etc. Schedule some date nights. Have an "over nighter" at a hotel. Take a bubble bath together with candles and music.
 
This preacher guy recommended to his congregation (for real, he was on the Colbert Report) that married couples take a 7-day sex challenge, where they have sex every day for 7 days. He called sex the super-glue of marriage. Something to think about!
 
Maybe you haven't been married for long and have some "issues" with the relationship that need to be addressed. Maybe a marriage counselor could help.
 
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