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My two cents
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Its three in the morning and i can't sleep. I let my now ex-husband have custody of my son. Only because at that time I was in my 20s and he made me feel he could do a better job. Now that my son has hurt himself in a high school football game, I went to the house to check on him and his dad acted like he had a problem with me being there. I went in in my son room and only stayed for 30min but his dad gave me the impression i was invading his privacy. It really hurts me when my son is sick that i can only talk to him over the phone because i can tell in his dads voice when he says he's ok that he does not want me over. I give out triple what we agreed i would pay any time my sons needs something. but his dad and i never talk and i really want to know if im going to have to go to court again just to have it on paper that i want to be able to see my son when he is sick or hurt. I know his dad is a private person but this is my son and it has been hurting me for quite some time. tomorrow i have to follow the dad and aunt & her husband just 2 go to the doctor with my son& i'm afraid they will treat me like im not important. they are a little uppety. i want to be there for my son physically besides just bringing him home cooked meals and giving him money all the time. i dont think i can explain why i was not there because of his dads ways. it shouldn't have to be like this. and im wondering what to say 2morrow and if i should try and get in the house 2morrow too after the appt to get him setteled in.