what is the big deal about having sex?

S

So Cal ™

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First of all you can't tell someone to keep religion out of it.
Maybe that's their explanation.
Second of all, she's a whore.
Why are you sleeping around with people even if you have a condom on and he doesn't have any diseases.
And you can never be sure about that.
You never know what people have.
They may not tell you :)

Isn't sex suppose to be something that two people do when they LOVE each other dearly?
or at least that's what I thought.
 
Making love is meant to be an act of total self-giving, a self-emptying. The second it becomes self-involved it loses its intended selfless focus.

For me and my wife, making love means:
I love you.
I find you attractive.
I care for you.
I will work for your happiness.
I wish to have a deep bond with you.
I am willing to have a child with you.
I want to share my whole life with you.
 
example....say a girl has sex with any guy she wants when she wants, and lets say every guy wears a condom that doesn't break or slip off and every guy is free from diseases.....and so is the girl.......if this girl NEVER has sex without a condom, what do you feel the big deal is then if this girl has no risk of getting pregnant or diseases? keeping religion out of it that it is a sin.........

im not saying this is how i think cause it's not, i just want people's opinions on why you would think it is so bad....
 
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