Someone Special
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Before you read this: Please take my question as serious as you can because I really hate people that make smart remarks. This is a very important question to me so please take this serious.
Well, I am a 14 year old teenage girl that is really confused about my sexuality. I sort of consider myself as Bi but Im not so sure anymore. I read other people's questions and none of them fit with me.
When I was in Elementary, I had a crush on this boy that I thought that was cute but never really pursued him due to my insecurities (family found out and made fun of me). Then in Middle school I began to start noticing girls more than boys because guys were complete A$$’s. But I never really thought of myself of being Bi at the time because I thought that it was just me being weird and for it to not be normal to like girls. As time went by, during the last year of Middle School, I felt lonely due to having all of my friends having BF’s and being happy so I decided to “date” one of my friends (didn’t work out due to both liking diff. people). I thought that I liked one of my other friends due to his bubbly personality but he was self-centered.
Now at the beginning of High school, I am now open with the idea of possibly being Bi (or whatever I am) because the students don't really care and I'm not completly sure that I should be with a girl or guy cuz im not sure exactly what i want. I took a lot of thought thinking that I was Bi because of many reasons:
I am emotionally attracted to girls more than boys.
I find certain parts of the female body attractive (abs) compared to if a male has them (I just think the guy is trying to show off or it has no affect)
I blush often with females than males (I'm friends with males bt only think of them as friends)
I find more girls cute compared to boys
My attitude toward girls is softer than when im around boys
I see the majority of guys as immature and non-compatible
I like certain characteristics(ie girly, flamboyant attitudes) in guys but I don’t fully like them
I can see myself ending up with a girl and a guy but mostly a girl (just as long as I love them I'm happy)
I am a tomboy yet weirdly find feminine girls cute (my mom used to get made at me when i was younger because i hung out n dressed like a dude)
The thing I REALLY don’t get is that I don’t think of either gender in a attractive, sexual way. I guess that’s because I’ve never been kissed or in a serious relationship before…also I just think that guys “junk” are gross n I’d rather b with a girl. IDK! I’m just really confused but I know that hormones are crazy right now. Although I don’t think that is the blame because I am very mature for a person my age (the types that plan 6 steps ahead of everyone else).
So what am I? Bi, Bi Curious, Les, Straight? If you could give me your advise or explination, that would help so much. BTW what exactly is being asexual? Thanks for your time and advice!
Well, I am a 14 year old teenage girl that is really confused about my sexuality. I sort of consider myself as Bi but Im not so sure anymore. I read other people's questions and none of them fit with me.
When I was in Elementary, I had a crush on this boy that I thought that was cute but never really pursued him due to my insecurities (family found out and made fun of me). Then in Middle school I began to start noticing girls more than boys because guys were complete A$$’s. But I never really thought of myself of being Bi at the time because I thought that it was just me being weird and for it to not be normal to like girls. As time went by, during the last year of Middle School, I felt lonely due to having all of my friends having BF’s and being happy so I decided to “date” one of my friends (didn’t work out due to both liking diff. people). I thought that I liked one of my other friends due to his bubbly personality but he was self-centered.
Now at the beginning of High school, I am now open with the idea of possibly being Bi (or whatever I am) because the students don't really care and I'm not completly sure that I should be with a girl or guy cuz im not sure exactly what i want. I took a lot of thought thinking that I was Bi because of many reasons:
I am emotionally attracted to girls more than boys.
I find certain parts of the female body attractive (abs) compared to if a male has them (I just think the guy is trying to show off or it has no affect)
I blush often with females than males (I'm friends with males bt only think of them as friends)
I find more girls cute compared to boys
My attitude toward girls is softer than when im around boys
I see the majority of guys as immature and non-compatible
I like certain characteristics(ie girly, flamboyant attitudes) in guys but I don’t fully like them
I can see myself ending up with a girl and a guy but mostly a girl (just as long as I love them I'm happy)
I am a tomboy yet weirdly find feminine girls cute (my mom used to get made at me when i was younger because i hung out n dressed like a dude)
The thing I REALLY don’t get is that I don’t think of either gender in a attractive, sexual way. I guess that’s because I’ve never been kissed or in a serious relationship before…also I just think that guys “junk” are gross n I’d rather b with a girl. IDK! I’m just really confused but I know that hormones are crazy right now. Although I don’t think that is the blame because I am very mature for a person my age (the types that plan 6 steps ahead of everyone else).
So what am I? Bi, Bi Curious, Les, Straight? If you could give me your advise or explination, that would help so much. BTW what exactly is being asexual? Thanks for your time and advice!