What is it with grinding(the dance)?

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Mack

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im 15 and i go to this once-a-month dance club thing with my girlfriends every once and a while and i go in and in a few minutes guys are grabbing my waist and like kinda prompting me to dance with them. i like to dance, dont get me wrong, but i have to get into it before i just throw myself out there. im not a slut and i dont really like dancing like that in the first place (especially if its a cute guy) but i suppose im just shy. also, the fact that they get hard while dancing doesn't really bother me as much as its flattering and i dont know what to do when it happens. this place is for high schoolers and i see the upperclassmen basically having sex on the dance floor and i think to myself "ugh, i dont want to look like that to someone else" they get wayyy to into it. i like the experience with my girlfriends and i want to know how i can make it more enjoyable for me?
i will NOT take any exctasy. i'm not going to take drugs so i can "get along" with people. thats what i have a personality for :/
 
yeah... grinding is just... stupid. Seriously it's like just a sexual way of dancing. I think it's dumb. The only reason guys like it is cuz they want to get some and it turns them on. Girls.. well I guess they just want to dance.

Try going to raves or something. Raves people are just happy and loving towards everyone. If you don't want to try going to other types of dances then try taking ecstasy. It will make it very enjoyable. You'll want to dance you you'll feel extremely close to the person you're dancing with along with everyone else there.
 
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