Without a doubt MONEY!!! If you had no money, how do you take the person you love out for dates, buy nice things for him/her - protect her, keep her safe? Definately MONEY MONEY MONEY!!!!
Emotional security. This is essential for everyone. You need to be emotionally stable to live your life. Money has no value. It's a piece of cloth with someone's face on it. lol
The guys I end up it seems that I only attract financial security with a guy and then emotional comes as a back up. But I think that an equal balance of both is good but then again emotions don't pay the bills money does but if there is money and problems in love then it's horrible