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In areas of the U.S. where the military culture seems particularly strong and has existed for a long time, such as perhaps the South, what are the true factors motivating families where generations have chosen the military as a career?
In communities where there is a lot of pride in military service, the death of a soldier is often seen as very honorable since that soldier has given his or her life for his/her country. Therefore, the pain of the loss of a child from a parent's viewpoint might be somewhat mitigated by the fact that a tightly knit pro-military community would probably be more supportive of the bereaved family. Indeed, there might be a certain level of heightened respect and honor shown towards that family for the sacrifice it has made.
What if the community wasn't as supportive? Would the grieving families be more likely to question whether it was "worth it" for their family member to have gone off and been killed during military service? When soldiers came back from Vietnam, they were sometimes badly received by certain segments of American society because Vietnam, particularlly in its latter stages, was a very unpopular war. This made it hard for returning soldiers and their families. Similarly, it was probably harder for the families of soldiers who had died to be comforted by those in surrounding communities or maybe even their own.communities.
Does the degree towards which a family unquestionably accepts the death of a family member as a "duty" to "G*d and country", to use the cliche, depend upon the consensus of the surrounding community as to whether military service is unconditionally a positive thing? If such a consensus didn't exist, would "military families" begin to question whether wars were always fought for patriotic reasons, as opposed to other reasons which might have more to do with politics or economics, for instance???
In communities where there is a lot of pride in military service, the death of a soldier is often seen as very honorable since that soldier has given his or her life for his/her country. Therefore, the pain of the loss of a child from a parent's viewpoint might be somewhat mitigated by the fact that a tightly knit pro-military community would probably be more supportive of the bereaved family. Indeed, there might be a certain level of heightened respect and honor shown towards that family for the sacrifice it has made.
What if the community wasn't as supportive? Would the grieving families be more likely to question whether it was "worth it" for their family member to have gone off and been killed during military service? When soldiers came back from Vietnam, they were sometimes badly received by certain segments of American society because Vietnam, particularlly in its latter stages, was a very unpopular war. This made it hard for returning soldiers and their families. Similarly, it was probably harder for the families of soldiers who had died to be comforted by those in surrounding communities or maybe even their own.communities.
Does the degree towards which a family unquestionably accepts the death of a family member as a "duty" to "G*d and country", to use the cliche, depend upon the consensus of the surrounding community as to whether military service is unconditionally a positive thing? If such a consensus didn't exist, would "military families" begin to question whether wars were always fought for patriotic reasons, as opposed to other reasons which might have more to do with politics or economics, for instance???