Russian Red
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For example if you're a guy and you've been friends with this girl for a long time. You're attracted to her instantly, she's laid back and down to earth, very cool, she's funny and you seem to can't take your eyes of her. You're a nice guy and keeps it cool by not making a move, trying not to scare her. You get nervous when she's around but you can't stop yourself not talking to her. You even felt a bit of jealousy when you seen her talking to one of her guy friends. You like her a lot but the only problem is you're not sure if she does because she's not giving you any signals. You've been wanting to ask her out but you can't find the courage to do so. You can't even ask for her number. She ended up e-mailing you asking how you are. You e-mailed her back asking if she was free for the week and if she wants to hang out. She replied sending her number. She's probably thinking you're too shy to ask for it so she made the initiative to do so. But what did you do? You didn't call her or even replied to her e-mail. What were you thinking?
That was only hypothetically speaking. Out of curiosity, is it really nerve-racking for a man to ask a woman out especially when he really really likes her? If a man wants to respect a woman and feels that relationship with her is long lasting would he take his time to make a move to not scare her? Would he be friends with her first? Or.. would you rather just risk the chance of losing her because you feel that she's too good for you? What's in a guy's mind?
That was only hypothetically speaking. Out of curiosity, is it really nerve-racking for a man to ask a woman out especially when he really really likes her? If a man wants to respect a woman and feels that relationship with her is long lasting would he take his time to make a move to not scare her? Would he be friends with her first? Or.. would you rather just risk the chance of losing her because you feel that she's too good for you? What's in a guy's mind?