or losing the moment? if i were to hook up with a guy and we were making out and whatnot, and i knew we were probably going to engage in intercourse, how could i ask him how many women he's been with or make sure he doesnt have any sTd's i need to know about, without sounding lame or without losing the HOT moment. the thing is i have a HUGE fear of STDs and i know that if you use protections, your usually safe. but i always wanna be sure and find a way to ask just in case. bc some people are idiots and will have sex with you knowing that they have a sex disease. how can i ask a guy without sounding like mcgruff the crime dog HAHA. and keep in mind that i probably wont ask until somethinng like foreplay has started bc i dont wanna ask in the middle of a date, bc what if he thinks im sleazy. IDK. please help! thanks 