ok my boyfriend and i always get into these arguments...long story short he got into some heavy drugs and just wasnt the same anymore...he cheated on me and then he choked me and i called the police and now hes in jail. what happens to him if i dont show up to court? will the state drop it of will i get into trouble? how long will it take for him to get a court dat its been a month and hes chared with first and second degree asault. i love him i just wanted him to see what happens when he messed up big time. i also got a restraining order...will i get in trouble if i contact him? i dont wanna be judged i just need some answers someone plz help