what does your being gay mean to you, love or sex?

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I feel being gay is about love. I can look a woman and know she is attractive and kiss her but it dose not go past my mind. I can look at a man and feel a connection that goes through my whole body, I can create emotions and form bonds.

You can have sex with anyone on the primal level be it man or woman, but the gender of the person you are able to fall in love with determines if you are gay or straight.
 
Technically sex, because that is how homosexuality is defined. Realistically, its love because anyone can "have sex" but only people who are gay would fall in love with someone of the same gender.
 
Neither.

Checkmate: What about people who are bisexual?

>>Technically sex, because that is how homosexuality is defined. Realistically, its love because anyone can "have sex" but only people who are gay would fall in love with someone of the same gender.<<
 
Been gay doesn't mean either to me.

But, I would pick love..but you can't have love without sex...and you can't have sex without love...
 
then its not a realistic question

if you had asked us to choose if we could only have one or the other then it would be different but the fact is i could love a woman but the sex wouldnt be very good because i dont like women. .

i would never get trapped in a loveless marriage just for sex so thats not an option either


the only reason i have followed the gay side of my bisexual nature is to get that combination of sex and love together.

i wouldn't do it otherwise so the answer has to be both or neither
 
love, definately love,
simply because i couldnt fall in love with a man.
but would have sex with one.
I'm bi, but i just couldnt fall in love with a man.
 
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