So, I was away from the computer for awhile. When I get on tonight, I see a message from my best friend on my wall it reads "Get on chat. We need to talk". He is not online and my mind wandering as it does, I start to freak out thinking of every possibility. This guy has been my best friend since the school year started and I really hope he is not pissed at me.
Here are some reasons why he could be pissed:
A girl he likes (there are multiple) got in a relationship, with a good friend of mine, last week. I knew but he didn't so I figured, "ah, save the guy some pain and don't tell him" Because, a few weeks back I mentioned that a friend of ours may like another crush of his and he got a small bit sad and upset.She posted she was in a relationship on facebook today and a picture of them together at a school event last night. They also posted clear pictures of me at that same event. I thought this girl liked me at a point earlier in the year and he told me "go for it" I told him I wouldn't because my friendship with him is more important than a relationship that for all I know could be absolutely terrible and end after a week. He told me to still go for it, but it seemed he was a little happier. She broke his heart earlier in the year. She posted her relationship status an hour or so before he posted "the we need to talk" on my wall
I also told a couple friends that he could be annoying or immature at points, but he's my best friend and it doesn't matter to me. I said they could go ahead and hate him, but he is truly my best friend and I will not say anything bad about him. Could he be angry at me for this?
A few weeks back I mentioned that a friend of ours may like another crush of his and he got a small bit sad and upset. Could he of found out they actually do like each other and are now going out?
A friend of mine that he absolutely hates, but I still enjoy hanging out with has been hanging out with me a lot recently. I have been hanging out with him at certain points, a little more than normal, but not much, a few days ago he said I should stay in the room with him to hang out. I wanted to flirt with the girl I like plus I had to leave soon, so I said "Nah man, but text me tonight".
Q: What does this mean?
BQ: What of these problems do you think is upsetting him?
BBQ: Do you think he's pissed at me or just needs to talk?
BBBQ: Is there anything I should of done differently?
Here are some reasons why he could be pissed:
A girl he likes (there are multiple) got in a relationship, with a good friend of mine, last week. I knew but he didn't so I figured, "ah, save the guy some pain and don't tell him" Because, a few weeks back I mentioned that a friend of ours may like another crush of his and he got a small bit sad and upset.She posted she was in a relationship on facebook today and a picture of them together at a school event last night. They also posted clear pictures of me at that same event. I thought this girl liked me at a point earlier in the year and he told me "go for it" I told him I wouldn't because my friendship with him is more important than a relationship that for all I know could be absolutely terrible and end after a week. He told me to still go for it, but it seemed he was a little happier. She broke his heart earlier in the year. She posted her relationship status an hour or so before he posted "the we need to talk" on my wall
I also told a couple friends that he could be annoying or immature at points, but he's my best friend and it doesn't matter to me. I said they could go ahead and hate him, but he is truly my best friend and I will not say anything bad about him. Could he be angry at me for this?
A few weeks back I mentioned that a friend of ours may like another crush of his and he got a small bit sad and upset. Could he of found out they actually do like each other and are now going out?
A friend of mine that he absolutely hates, but I still enjoy hanging out with has been hanging out with me a lot recently. I have been hanging out with him at certain points, a little more than normal, but not much, a few days ago he said I should stay in the room with him to hang out. I wanted to flirt with the girl I like plus I had to leave soon, so I said "Nah man, but text me tonight".
Q: What does this mean?
BQ: What of these problems do you think is upsetting him?
BBQ: Do you think he's pissed at me or just needs to talk?
BBBQ: Is there anything I should of done differently?