seemingly not dating him...? There is this girl in school that I have had a strong crush on for a long time but for one reason or another never got the nerve to ask out...and she went the dance last weekend with a guy (who I am a distant friend of)...but they don't seem to be dating and don't spend an above normal amount of time together...does this mean she is taken? or do girls sometimes go to dances with guys just for fun ?