What does having sex before you are ready do to you?

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Hailley

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Okay so I am running into a problem. I have a bit of an older boyfriend with experience. Not like a man whore or anything, but a typical guy. He is really nice and really sweet and we have been dating for like two years now. I'm 16 he's 18. He just turned and so did I. I'm a virgin though, and I know that he wants sex, but I am just not ready. He respects that and everything but I feel like I am not being fair to him. I know the physical consequences of sex, but is having it before you are ready really that bad. I mean we would be using a condom, birth control and I would take plan B too because I am like mortified of getting pregnant. P.S. we have both been tested for STDS just in case so when I knew I was ready.
 
well if your ready then rock on. but taking plan b if he didnt cum in you an u use a condom is just stupid. your not going to get pregnant, the chances of you getting preggo with bc an a condom are like NADA. if u really love him rock on. but if your not ready then dont do it theres plenty of time
 
If you have sex before you're ready it can be emotionally disturbing. If you're not ready to handle it all or try it and decide its not the right time for you, then you're stuck with a lot of conflicted thoughts and feelings. Shame, anxiety, stress, feeling used are just a few. Wait until you're ready.
 
Oh be careful / and smart.

He is 18 - isn't that illegal for him to have sex with you?

Also - It will mess with your brain / psychological - Your not going to marry him and if you do it won't last guaranteed - Your too young.
And if that statement gets you upset and thoughts of "How do you know" then that just proves my point - Your too young.

Stay Sweet and Pure.

CB
 
youre not being fair to him? you guys might break up tomorrow honey! sorry but you have to be fare to yourself..if youre not ready too bad for him, you dont wanna go running into it like that youre first time only happens once and you cant take it back because you werent ready then
 
Emontailly if your not ready, you will regret it and always feel like you have to have sex with a guy to 1) love you 2) to have a realonship 3) feel like sex is a chore isn't of 'love"
Plus emotionally you said you weren't ready. So you need to weight or later in life you'll totally regret it
Trust me, sex DOES change everything
 
As a guy, if he truly does "respect" your opinion, then you should owe him nothing. If you feel you're not ready, you're not. Plain and simple.
 
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