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Dark Half Undine
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I feel that critics have this overinflated sense of self-importance, and frankly they might be right in that attitude given how people just wander around going: "Well Roger Egbert said it was bad."
The truth is human beings are social creatures and they do rely heavily on the opinions and advice of others. Sometimes this can be a good thing, such as a daughter relying on the advice of her mother that walking around in a dark parking lot at 3am is a bad idea. She doesn't need to try it out, she listens to the advice and thinks:"Hey that's practical."
But where other's opinions are something I worry about is with individual thought. People really do give up their right to individual thought because it may be easier to just rely on someone else's. It also makes you feel part of a group. It happens often, to you perhaps or others you have known that when you are in a large group of friends and a percentage of them say "Well this movie sucks" someone finds themself agreeing even if they may feel completely different. Now of course that isn't everyone, and in fact I know I really don't like when I can see people giving up their own opinion to not appear contradictory to the masses. Yeah yeah call me uppity but I have a big mouth and always tell people "No I don't like that" even if I am the odd man out. I'm sure there are many of you here who also don't like to compromise your opinions either. And isn't it the worst when you have someone like that in a group and they are even more obvious cause they change their opinion in the middle of a conversation because no one is agreeing with them...bleh. That is another downfall of people, they are terrified of standing alone. It is very lonely and I don't disagree that it is simpler to be agreeable. But at what cost?
And don't you notice that it is the negative comments that always tend to spread faster than the positive ones? People are so ready to believe that something isn't worth their time than actually just going to find out.
So yeah I don't really like critics, or rather I don't like relying on critics and what they think. And while there is nothing wrong with finding out what others think, to me there is definitely something wrong about giving up how you feel for the easier road of sharing negativity. Being positive is the bigger challenge.
The truth is human beings are social creatures and they do rely heavily on the opinions and advice of others. Sometimes this can be a good thing, such as a daughter relying on the advice of her mother that walking around in a dark parking lot at 3am is a bad idea. She doesn't need to try it out, she listens to the advice and thinks:"Hey that's practical."
But where other's opinions are something I worry about is with individual thought. People really do give up their right to individual thought because it may be easier to just rely on someone else's. It also makes you feel part of a group. It happens often, to you perhaps or others you have known that when you are in a large group of friends and a percentage of them say "Well this movie sucks" someone finds themself agreeing even if they may feel completely different. Now of course that isn't everyone, and in fact I know I really don't like when I can see people giving up their own opinion to not appear contradictory to the masses. Yeah yeah call me uppity but I have a big mouth and always tell people "No I don't like that" even if I am the odd man out. I'm sure there are many of you here who also don't like to compromise your opinions either. And isn't it the worst when you have someone like that in a group and they are even more obvious cause they change their opinion in the middle of a conversation because no one is agreeing with them...bleh. That is another downfall of people, they are terrified of standing alone. It is very lonely and I don't disagree that it is simpler to be agreeable. But at what cost?
And don't you notice that it is the negative comments that always tend to spread faster than the positive ones? People are so ready to believe that something isn't worth their time than actually just going to find out.
So yeah I don't really like critics, or rather I don't like relying on critics and what they think. And while there is nothing wrong with finding out what others think, to me there is definitely something wrong about giving up how you feel for the easier road of sharing negativity. Being positive is the bigger challenge.