What do you do when you are really lonely? Is it ok then to have paid sex?

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My partner now, he has been loyal in his relationships to date but in his in between times, has tried to use online sex dating sites and even escort girls. Don't know if he actually did use a girl, but tried to.

I have had more alone times and fewer relationships than he has but never have done that. I dealt with loneliness by going through it, no matter how hard it was.

I find it hard to digest anyone going to those lengths to not deal with loneliness.
 
Well, sometimes one has to look outside of himself and see that going to a "pro" is actually assisting a woman in demeaning herself in the name of the almighty dollar. No matter how lonely I got, I don't think I could bring myself to encourage another to continue with that profession. Using them is the same as encouraging. Beyond that, I can't have sex without love or connection anyway so it wouldn't work for me regardless.
 
by partner - you mean business....you should clarify that!

honestly - my husband told me the other day that he was seriously considering paying a hooker - a high class expensive hot one ---- at some point in his life...just because he wanted to know what it would be like and he got so loney...never thought he would get married.

people have different needs. He needs to feel closeness to someone - that is what my husband says --- and people WILL pay for that closeness under the guise of it being "sex." Dont' kid yourself - it is the lonliness...not so much the sex. you can beat off for free on the internet..lol. my husband says he can relate to that....
 
i dont know what it is about paid sex that makes guys so apt to try it. maybe its because we want sex and we want it now. if i was single and wanted to have sex i would have to go out to a bar find a girl buy her a drink get her number unless i could get her really drunk, then call her, go on a date, buy her dinner, take her to a show meet some of her friends then about a month from now i may have sex. if she gives it up on the first night she is a whore and if she doesnt she is a bitch. i feel for you women. but on the other hand we can pay some chick 50bucks get head and never have to see her again. i have never paid for sex but there was some nights if it would have been available i might have done it. i live in a small town so thank God its not readily available, but for you guys in the big city i see on tv, i understand.
 
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