What do you all think of this? (Long rant)?

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Sometimes I just want a soft kiss... a slow soft kiss that is all... but
she will either not let me kiss her (like she is joking or
playing), or give me a very short peck. It feels like
robotic, insincere... but I get it. I know she just isn't in
the mood to kiss. It is a bit unfair, if the woman doesn't
want to kiss the dude is out of luck. If the dude doesn't
want to kiss... wait... when would the dude not want to
kiss? Sure sometimes guys aren't in the mood but hello,
rarely never!

Its unfair that physical affection is dictated primarily by
the woman's moods. I don't want affection from my wife if
she isn't into it. Again, I'd rather deal with the truth
than insincerity.

I don't need to bring this up to her by any means, it is
just something I'm not happy about. I wish that when I saw
her every day that she would want the same thing I want. A
nice hug and kiss and an I love you. Instead of "Shut the
door", "did you change trinity's cat litter?", "why is that
door open?".

Granted I do get a hug and a kiss sometimes, I guess I
should focus on what I do get rather than what I don't get.

What are your thoughts on my rant?
Internet Hate Machine you are the douche

And I'm a man who isn't afraid to let down his Touch Guise and talk about his feelings, get a life you negative jerks.
TOUGH GUISE lol... wow I hate mistyping crap.
 
You sound like a person who likes physical affection and she sounds like she's not that into it. Explain that just because you want a kiss doesn't mean you are trying to have sex.
I had the same problem with my 1st husband. If I kissed him, he thought it meant I wanted sex. There was no 'middle' ground with him. Explain to her that you just want the physical contact. You have every right to ask for that.
 
Your relationship has underlying issues. She might be cheating or just unhappy. This is the first sing that the marriage will end - lack of copmassion or desire for physical intimacy.
 
I think if you want a hug, a kiss, and an I love you when you walk in the door then you should go up to your wife and give her a hug, a kiss, and an I love you when you walk in the door. I don't know of any woman who wouldn't like that...
 
Tell her it bothers you. It's that simple. If you don't tell her she wont know. If she realizes that it's important to you then she may make an effort to be more considerate. She probably is just busy and doesn't realize that you feel neglected sometimes. If you don't talk, it will only get worse.
 
Tell her it bothers you. It's that simple. If you don't tell her she wont know. If she realizes that it's important to you then she may make an effort to be more considerate. She probably is just busy and doesn't realize that you feel neglected sometimes. If you don't talk, it will only get worse.
 
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