what do i say to the guy using me for sex (10 points)?

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we met a couple of weeks ago through a mutual friend and basically realized we both liked each other pretty quickly..(at least i liked him).
he told me soon that he wanted to ask me to be his girlfriend and we met up a couple of times.

After a week i was invited to a party at one of our friends'. we both got drunk and yeh im not going to lie, we did some stuff but didn't have sex. The next morning i was leaving to walk to the bus station and his mate said that he should walk me there himself but he said he couldn't be assed.

So 6 days of occasional texting later i find out through one of his friends that he's using me and doesn't really want a relationship.

what do i say to him? i don't want him back and i'm over the whole using me bit...i just don't know how to tell him that i don't want to be with him even though we weren't a couple?
 
Ignore his calls...why feel obligated to explain something that never was?

Or, you can call him and say "I feel really bad about this, but I'm going to be honest. I don't want a relationship, i was using you for sex." A little taste of his own medicine and you wont feel like he 'used' you!
 
if he asks to see you again, i would just say you are seeing someone.. that is all.. no need to tell him he is using you, or anything dramatic... chalk it up to experience... mona
 
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