what do i do when my husband is trying to take a job working on a military ship for

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Kia love

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months at a time? my husband went to visit family in nj..got sick and decided to stay. i live in nc with my our one year old daughter and a baby due in september. he left with nothing, no job and no money, but wants me to move there with nothing. now he wants to take a job working on a military ship overseas for months at a time. base is in va, i dont have license dont have much experience driving...no family in va....first time mother still learning...what do i do? am i wrong for not accepting it?
thanks for all the answers i greatly appreciate all thoughts.and to answer no he has never done this type of work.
 
I do not feel that you are wrong. I believe you are looking out for the children. Hopefully he will understand your decision.If he will be gone for these extended periods of time,you should not be asked to move. If you are living close to family now,you will really need them when the new baby comes. He should wait to see if he is going to be able to handle the job on the water. I am assuming he has not done that type of work before. Just take your time and try to make the best decision possible.
 
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