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To make a long story short, I have been divorced for over 6 years and my ex-mother-in-law makes my life a living hell. I have 3 girls, my oldest from a previous relationship and a set of twins with my ex-husband. My ex-husband has a rap sheet as long as webster and a month ago had his first unsupervised visit with my twins and took them to a resturaunt and left them there. Needless to say, I have not allowed any visits or contact from him in any way since. My ex-mother in law HATES my oldest daughter, but wants to see my twins regardless of what their son has done. I must tell you, up until now, they have enabled him and his drinking and drug addiction (including giving him a car to drive drunk with.... with my kids in the car). They have "seen the light" regarding their son, but continue to say horrible things about my oldest daughter every time I let them take my twins. Yes, I have talked to them about this many times and they promise to never do it again, yet do. She even went so far as to call CPS and accuse my oldest of abusing my twins, which was investigated and found to be false. My problem is as much of a monster as she is, my twins love both of them very much and ask to see them. I have all of them in therapy every week, but my gut tells me to cut my ex-in-laws out because of the emotional damage they cause. What do I do?