What did the prophet (saw) say about arguing?

Passenger

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Does anybody know the haidth? I read it some where but I'm not sure. It was something like 2 men were arguing and ones face became red, he stood up and started shouting.
The prophet (saw) said something like if he said istiadha...it would have been better for him?

Also read that if a muslim walks away from another muslim even if knows he was right......something something something.

Aaargh, i can't remember.
 
SOMETIMES WE CAN DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN ARGUMENT AND DEBATING.
HONEST DEBATE IS ALLOWED IN ISLAM, MANY VERSES SPEAK ABOUT BRINGING FORWARD THE EVIDENCE/PROOF AND THIS HAS BEEN THE METHOD OF SPREADING ISLAM.
URGING OR ARGUMENT IS NOT NOT RECOMMENDED IN ISLAM CAUSE ARGUMENT CAN LEAD TO A FIGHT, AND ANY FIGHT IS HARAM UNLESS IS FOUGHT FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH WITHIN THE STRICTLY TEACHINGS AND MANDATE OF THE QUR'AN.
 
The Hadith of the Prophet SAW says, “No believer should be angered with another and cease speaking to him for more than three days.”
( Bukhari, Adab 57, 62; Isti’dhan 9; Muslim, Birr 23, 25, 26; Abu Da’ud, Adab 47; Tirmidhi, Birr 21, 24; Ibn Maja, Muqaddima 7; Musnad i, 176, 183; iii, 110, 165, 199, 209, 225; iv, 20, 327, 328; v, 416, 421, 422.)

There is also a Hadith which says: ‘Difference among my people is an instance of Divine Mercy,’
The difference intended in the Hadith is a positive difference. That is, each party strives to promote and diffuse its own belief; it does not seek to tear down and destroy that of the other, but rather to improve and reform it. Negative difference is rejected by the Hadith, for it aims in partisan and hostile fashion at mutual destruction, and those who are at each other’s throats cannot act positively.
 
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And argue not with the people of the Scripture (Jews and Christians), unless it be in (a way) that is better (with good words and in good manner, inviting them to Islamic Monotheism with His Verses), except with such of them as do wrong; and say (to them): ‘We believe in that which has been revealed to us and revealed to you; our Ilaah (God) and your Ilaah (God) is One (i.e. Allaah), and to Him we have submitted (as Muslims)’”
[al-‘Ankaboot 29:46]
 
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And argue not with the people of the Scripture (Jews and Christians), unless it be in (a way) that is better (with good words and in good manner, inviting them to Islamic Monotheism with His Verses), except with such of them as do wrong; and say (to them): ‘We believe in that which has been revealed to us and revealed to you; our Ilaah (God) and your Ilaah (God) is One (i.e. Allaah), and to Him we have submitted (as Muslims)’”
[al-‘Ankaboot 29:46]
 
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