What can I send in letters to my boyfriend who is currently at marine boot camp?

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imported_Just_me

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I know I need to be upbeat and positive, but i found something out the other day that kind of upset me about him and I have just really wanting to ask him about it. I don't know if it's a good idea to ask him because I don't want to stress him out anymore than what he already is. It's just tough trying to support him, when he may have lied to be before he left. Thanks..
Well while we were talking/getting ready to date, I was told he was at a party trying to hook up with as many girls as he could. And I know it doesn't sound bad because we weren't technically dating at that point, but 2 days later we were and it just really bothers me. I don't want to wait around if he's just going to cheat ya know?
 
I know that this is very hard on you, not being able to contact your BF about what you found out, but in basic training, your mind is in SO many other crazy places and the stress is so intense that even the smallest thing can throw your mind out of whack. Hold on to your questions until he is through with basic. It will be the same with deployments. I know it's unhealthy, but you and he need to set the rough stuff aside until you can actually deal with the issues. You may even find out that it is unfounded, if not, then you can deal with it later. The downside is you have to hang on to the issue. The upside - you maintain the role of a strong and good girlfriend who did the right thing and you can leave the situation with class.
 
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