Kevin first of all IF YOU use protection it is not an issue, Right. Regardless, it would be her decision to make whether she wanted an abortion or not. Have you missed the movement of Abortion is a Woman's Right....If you and this woman do not agree on the abortion issue - should this be a person that you are intimately involved with, since values are vastly different. But dude bottom line it is NOT up to you to talk her into it. If you wear a "raincoat" as protection it will never need to be discussed again. God bless Reggie