I was seeing a guy for a month and a bit. He was really amazing towards me and we really got on, and he seemed as into me as I was into him, saying and doing lovely things.
After a month and a bit, after being crap at texting 1st for a week and ignoring 1 of my texts, I rang him a few days.
I got it out of him that he has just heard back from his university that he has got a place on the master program, but that he needs to raise £4,000 by september to pay for it.
He said I don't expect you to stick around but I want you to. I questioned him twice on this, and then he said actuallly I don't know what I'm saying. I said well when you know, let me know. He said he would call me on Friday. An hour later I sent him a text to show I care.
On that Friday I send him a text saying that I do really want to talk to him but I couldn't after 7.30pm and that if he can't call me till then to let me know of another time he is free to talk.
I heard nothing from him... So on the Sunday night, I sent him a message saying I can't keep waiting around for him to make up his mind, cz I also had a lot of work to do too. I said I would have been understanding and given him space when he wanted it etc. and that maybe he just didn't like me enough, cz I at least wanted to give it a go, even if ulitmately he may have been right and we would have distracted each other... and wished him good luck with raising the money etc...
Then again NOTHING from him..
Normally this is where things would end as I have too much pride, but...
A week later called him, he seemed friendly on the phone, I said I know I sent that text, but I clearly couldn't stand by it and talked about lighter topics, how are you etc. He ended the conversation with we should talk another time, I said, you should call me too, he said we will meet soon..
It's almost a week since, and again nothing!!.. I know he is stressed about the money but still!!
Is there anything I can do to get him back??
What do you think he feels??
and should I just totally forget this, because he is not worth damaging my pride any further.
After a month and a bit, after being crap at texting 1st for a week and ignoring 1 of my texts, I rang him a few days.
I got it out of him that he has just heard back from his university that he has got a place on the master program, but that he needs to raise £4,000 by september to pay for it.
He said I don't expect you to stick around but I want you to. I questioned him twice on this, and then he said actuallly I don't know what I'm saying. I said well when you know, let me know. He said he would call me on Friday. An hour later I sent him a text to show I care.
On that Friday I send him a text saying that I do really want to talk to him but I couldn't after 7.30pm and that if he can't call me till then to let me know of another time he is free to talk.
I heard nothing from him... So on the Sunday night, I sent him a message saying I can't keep waiting around for him to make up his mind, cz I also had a lot of work to do too. I said I would have been understanding and given him space when he wanted it etc. and that maybe he just didn't like me enough, cz I at least wanted to give it a go, even if ulitmately he may have been right and we would have distracted each other... and wished him good luck with raising the money etc...
Then again NOTHING from him..
Normally this is where things would end as I have too much pride, but...
A week later called him, he seemed friendly on the phone, I said I know I sent that text, but I clearly couldn't stand by it and talked about lighter topics, how are you etc. He ended the conversation with we should talk another time, I said, you should call me too, he said we will meet soon..
It's almost a week since, and again nothing!!.. I know he is stressed about the money but still!!
Is there anything I can do to get him back??
What do you think he feels??
and should I just totally forget this, because he is not worth damaging my pride any further.