Seeker Of Painful Truths
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girlfriend/boyfriend, or the same sex? I have a new found irritation. When lesbian or bisexual girls eyeball or hit on my wife, I feel lava shooting out my ears.
I'm a pretty confident guy. I don't care if other dudes stare at her, or even flirt if they don't know she's married, as long as they are respectable and they back off when they realize she has me. I always encourage her to dress sexy so I can enjoy her physical presence when I'm with her. But if a chick does it, it inferiates me.
I think it's because if a guy eye-balls her, I know he can't compete because I'm a guy, I have what he has, and she's with me. But I can't compete with a girl. Not that my wife likes girls, she hates it when girls hit on her too. It drives her nuts. It's just that the girls who do it, come off as arrogant, like, "heh, I'm a chick, all I need to do is show her the girly side of love and she'll be all about me".
They irritate me. Especially like with today, we were buying stuff from Target, and even though I bought the items, the cashier girl paid no attention to me at all. As if I wasn't even there. She kept staring and smiling at my wife. My wife wanted to elbow her in the teeth.
Anyone else have similar experiences?
Thoughts?
For the record, my wife doesn't look like a butch chick. She looks like one of those anime-looking asian chicks, but she's hispanic, feminine. Maybe these girls think she's kind of emo looking or something.
I'm a pretty confident guy. I don't care if other dudes stare at her, or even flirt if they don't know she's married, as long as they are respectable and they back off when they realize she has me. I always encourage her to dress sexy so I can enjoy her physical presence when I'm with her. But if a chick does it, it inferiates me.
I think it's because if a guy eye-balls her, I know he can't compete because I'm a guy, I have what he has, and she's with me. But I can't compete with a girl. Not that my wife likes girls, she hates it when girls hit on her too. It drives her nuts. It's just that the girls who do it, come off as arrogant, like, "heh, I'm a chick, all I need to do is show her the girly side of love and she'll be all about me".
They irritate me. Especially like with today, we were buying stuff from Target, and even though I bought the items, the cashier girl paid no attention to me at all. As if I wasn't even there. She kept staring and smiling at my wife. My wife wanted to elbow her in the teeth.
Anyone else have similar experiences?
Thoughts?
For the record, my wife doesn't look like a butch chick. She looks like one of those anime-looking asian chicks, but she's hispanic, feminine. Maybe these girls think she's kind of emo looking or something.