What are your thoughts on swinging?

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Edward J

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Me and my fiancee got invited to a swingers party and neither of us want to attend so we aren't. What are your thoughts on swinging? me and my fiancee aren't open to the idea, we just think it's a bad idea at least it is for us.
 
In my opinion intimacy is exclusive and can only be shared with a spouse or a very close partner. Sex (the physical act) can hardly be rewarding without intimacy. Intimacy is indicative of the depth of the relationship. Sex is just what every animal does (relationship is optional).

If you plan on spending a lifetime together with your partner -- then you'd want to develop a mentality to engage in sex only when there is an intimacy.
 
Not for us, either. Would definitely ruin our relationship and destroy our trust. I'm glad you and your fiance agreed/felt the same way about it; because if you would have thought it was a good idea and she'd said "no" (or viceversa), you would have had a problem afterward, even if you hadn't done it.
 
I think it's up to the couple. I mean, it's not for me and in all reality, I find it rather disgusting and disrespectful. But, I'm sure there are couples out there who see it as an agreement, or open relationship and so it works for them.
 
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