What are your insecurities?

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Some of my co-workers can talk very dirty sometimes. it's disgusts me sometimes, specially when i'm trying to eat. :(
 
I like my height (I'm just over 5ft and I'm 15) but I get made fun of a lot for it. It just gets old being made fun of for it.
 
:hug: Sure you would be, your good enough.

sit_spin- I feel your pain, Im almost short and wish I could be a couple inches taller, probably wont be as hard on me to keep my weight in check.



Awww, well I know how it feels to think 'what does my bf see in me that I dont' and well he sees the beauty in you. Sometimes looks only go so far but the personality out shines the looks and wins the hearts of any, which also makes them beautiful on the outside as well as the in to the ones that love them.
 
I guess they are. As far as I know it's genetic whether you have a lot or just a few. I don't have many problems with them... I have a few, but I don't mind, but I have a lot of friends who do have a lot more.

So it seems to be a very common problem.
 
I'm insecure about my height. I've never been able to reach a high shelf, and I get mistaken for at least 4 to 5 years younger than I am everywhere I go. (Sometimes it's up to 9 years younger.) I have insecurities about my weight, especially since most height/weight charts for adults start at 4'10", and I'm 4'8", so I have a hard time figuring out what I need to weigh. I also have an insecurity about my legs, since they're muscular from all the skating, swimming, and dancing I've done over the years.
 
I think the real question is what am I secure about, I'm one of the most insecure people ever.

Weight...to my boyfriend leaving me...to me insecure about my future.
 
Me too. I'm so worried that I'm going to make a fool out of myself, that I usually don't talk at all.


My legs too, I just feel like they are so chubby and short.
 
I think a lot of our insecurities are centered around our looks or body issues :nod:
 
I'd probably change everything minus my eyes and boobs. I get a lot of body hair considering I'm a girl and I am overweight so I'd constantly get teased at school for both those things. It's weird, sometimes I'll look in the mirror thinking I'm not that bad, other times I just see this fat hairy monster staring back at me. I even wonder why my boyfriend is with me and ask him to find a better looking than me because he deserves better than a fat, ugly, crazy beast of a girlfriend.
 
Insecureties ? many.... driving on highways; which I avoid ...actually I always tell my friend to drive. Insecure about my looks sometimes... taller, prettier and not have weight problems no matter what I do !!! Add smarter to the list :lol:
 
Oh yeah, I had that same attitude, and I also knew I was much better than everyone cause I didn't have to make anyone feel like crap to prove myself better to anyone. Still, it never stopped being hurtful.

Now though, when I think of everything, I think if I had been then the way I am nowadays, I think I wouldn't have given a crap, actually, cause really what they said only hurt cause I was still in that teenage process of finding out who I was, so all those doubts I had about myself, am I cool enough, am I pretty enough, etc, were the reason their comments got to me so bad, because some part of me wasn't sure that they weren't right in what they were saying, you know? It was particularly bad when I was 13, the worst time of my life, really.
When I got to high school, I wasn't bullied anymore, but still people would laugh at me sometimes for being too shy, for being too serious, etc, but for the most part I was just ignored, which is better than being bullied. And by then I had already accepted that that was what school was about and one day I would get out of it and never come back so I didn't care anymore.
 
Oh, and what totally kills me is being in a room with many really intelligent people like my professors... I'm sooooo scared I might say something really stupid that I usually do.

I think that is my worst insecurity feeling... that people might think that I could be stupid...
Does that qualify as insecurity or is that more fear-related? :shrug:

Well, it just popped into my head :)
 
Height, legs, my confidence (i'm not very confident - i wish i could change that)
 
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