also another question, my aunts are hosting my baby shower and told me to get together the names and addresses of friends and family i wanted to attend. Once i made my list of everyone it came to be like 40 people in total..with my girlfriends,cousins, my family and his. Is this to many?? i realize not everyone will show up but i don't want to be rude and invite to many people for them to handle. What do you think? and good games and should i cut back on my guest list?