You bring up a very good point, realityhd!
I did not mention donations. While donations are a very important part of the BT community, they generally don't make you a "better" member. Many sites give VIP status or added upload credit for donating to the site, but I cannot think of one that would let even a substantial "philanthropist" such as yourself get away with breaking site rules. In particular, I like BMTV's stance on the "Elite" member:
BMTV Donation Page said:
Keep in mind that donation for ELITE status and Donator star does not exempt you from the auto ban for ratio.
Nor does it give you any Upload Credit. ELITE's should not lead by bad example anyway.
In other words, you cannot buy your way into Heaven or out of trouble.
On a somewhat related note, I did not address ratios or high speed connections. It is very common for members to mention both of these when making an invite request.
A good ratio is simply part of following site rules and is a minimal qualification for membership.
A high speed connection or "seed box" is a plus, but there is no shortage of speed- especially on the most sought-after sites. Members giving invites like to know if their invitees can "keep up" when they give out invites to hard-to-seed sites, but it is really more of a plus than a huge asset to a site. However, it might come in handy if a site is trying to get off the ground and does not have very many members.
So, I would argue that donations, good ratios, and high speeds are all good, but members seeking invitations should focus on what else they can bring to a site when making a request.
Bottom line- Be fun, interesting, intelligent, and likable. If you have a long history of any/all of these things you will have more fun and you will get invited to more places. It works IRL and on the internets.
