Me and this girl have liked each other for years, she actually asked me out one time but I was like nah, was nervous and stupid. But there's always been something there between me and her, she would always comment my pics etc till one day I asked to meet. She was excited and we met, connected really well she was lovley around me, felt like we been together for ages, like I bought out best in her.
And she opend up to me about her past, how she been cheated/abused so she been through a lot, I just treated her like a princess she even said I treated her so lovley, and we would always make out and hug up to late night movies, always text and be sweet to each other...but now all that's over
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she started getting distant, saying how nice it would be if we could work out, or she is confused, and how I'm to good for her, I didn't understant but the harder I tried to reasure her the more I got pushed away. but then she wanted to see me again so I was like cool she has sorted herself out?, and she always said she always have a nice time with me...Then few days later she jumps in relationship, which screams out she is running away from me or something, and she even rang me to talk about it, saying she needs someone that has lived life like hers (so...? she still lives in past?) U just thought it was all BS. Then every status she made was about her bf, like trying to convince herself she is happy, after a month of zero contact between us, they broke up saying it didn't feel right, I thought maube that had something to do with me?
remember...this girl has been the one trying to get with me and who has liked ME for ages, and asked me out, and she never said even this day she ain't intrested no more, she couldof told me straight, ignored me, told my friend to tell me or something, but obviously she does like me, its like that other guy was some excuse so if something bad happened there would be no dissapointments? but with me there would of been.
We started talking again, 3 days after she broke up, I was just straight forward with her...and here is the text convo, and this is where it all ends...
Me: hey hun hope your alright
Her: yeah why wouldn't I be
Me: dunno, u was on mind just wanted to seehow my fave girl was doing
Her: oh lol not to bad thanks
Me: k nice to hear n if u wanna hang out sometime it be nice
she didn't write back so next day I continued
Me: hey hun 0h c u get that msg on fb?
Her: are you drunk
Me: lol wtf nah why you think that
Her: tht last msg was all over the place
Me: no my phones touch screen just sucks
blah blah blah...next day
Me: hey whats up
Her: nuttin
Me: oi dont be like that im sorry if i annoyed you last night
her: no nothing is up
next day
me: k nice to hear hun, n look im just gonna be straight with you...I still have feelings for you, n think about you everyday, look how long we like each other for babe you should be with me coz i'll never do you wrong, u should let me love you coz your so beautiful to me
Her: aww thats really sweet but thats why i broke up with ex coz i just dont want a relationship
Me: well maybe we can hang out sometimes and you come crash round, no string atatched just i'd rather it be us you know as we like each other we dont av to label it bf/gf
but then i started to regret saying that coz I don't want friends with benefits or something so i write back
Me: forget that last msg im just trying to find an excuse to kiss n see you again, if we were to get together we would do it properly my way or the highway, but yeah, n hope your alright.
her: iv told u i dont wanna be with anyone or anything like that, sorry to sound blunt but its obvs not getting through to you
me: i'd rather u be straight and i know, im just saying when your ready...ill be willing to wait, unless you dont have feelings for me anymore
her: all i have done is be straight with you, ive said no
me: f*** man, if your not intrested tell me, ur not being straight, all I can make of you is your afraid to get close incase you get hurt
her: I have, i dont want a bf
me: so even though we liked each other for ages, and i remember you saying how nice it would be if we could work out, its all coz you dont want a bf? awesome, im sorry you feel that way..
her: yep
and thats it, nothing more I can do man. I've said all i wanted and can, I tried fighting for her I really did, I tried hard for her to see and her stop running away from emotions, she still ain't said nothing like she ain't intrested, she likes me, but cant be with anyone else coz of me, and cant be with me coz??? what? she feels i can do better? i treated her like a princess so maybe she thought she couldn't return that love i gave her? omfg man, i cant do nothing, i cant ask her to hangout sometime in a few months coz, it just wont happen, she has to sort herself out and come to me...what do you make of it all people? and would she remember
And she opend up to me about her past, how she been cheated/abused so she been through a lot, I just treated her like a princess she even said I treated her so lovley, and we would always make out and hug up to late night movies, always text and be sweet to each other...but now all that's over
...she started getting distant, saying how nice it would be if we could work out, or she is confused, and how I'm to good for her, I didn't understant but the harder I tried to reasure her the more I got pushed away. but then she wanted to see me again so I was like cool she has sorted herself out?, and she always said she always have a nice time with me...Then few days later she jumps in relationship, which screams out she is running away from me or something, and she even rang me to talk about it, saying she needs someone that has lived life like hers (so...? she still lives in past?) U just thought it was all BS. Then every status she made was about her bf, like trying to convince herself she is happy, after a month of zero contact between us, they broke up saying it didn't feel right, I thought maube that had something to do with me?
remember...this girl has been the one trying to get with me and who has liked ME for ages, and asked me out, and she never said even this day she ain't intrested no more, she couldof told me straight, ignored me, told my friend to tell me or something, but obviously she does like me, its like that other guy was some excuse so if something bad happened there would be no dissapointments? but with me there would of been.
We started talking again, 3 days after she broke up, I was just straight forward with her...and here is the text convo, and this is where it all ends...
Me: hey hun hope your alright
Her: yeah why wouldn't I be
Me: dunno, u was on mind just wanted to seehow my fave girl was doing
Her: oh lol not to bad thanks
Me: k nice to hear n if u wanna hang out sometime it be nice
she didn't write back so next day I continued
Me: hey hun 0h c u get that msg on fb?
Her: are you drunk
Me: lol wtf nah why you think that
Her: tht last msg was all over the place
Me: no my phones touch screen just sucks
blah blah blah...next day
Me: hey whats up
Her: nuttin
Me: oi dont be like that im sorry if i annoyed you last night
her: no nothing is up
next day
me: k nice to hear hun, n look im just gonna be straight with you...I still have feelings for you, n think about you everyday, look how long we like each other for babe you should be with me coz i'll never do you wrong, u should let me love you coz your so beautiful to me
Her: aww thats really sweet but thats why i broke up with ex coz i just dont want a relationship
Me: well maybe we can hang out sometimes and you come crash round, no string atatched just i'd rather it be us you know as we like each other we dont av to label it bf/gf
but then i started to regret saying that coz I don't want friends with benefits or something so i write back
Me: forget that last msg im just trying to find an excuse to kiss n see you again, if we were to get together we would do it properly my way or the highway, but yeah, n hope your alright.
her: iv told u i dont wanna be with anyone or anything like that, sorry to sound blunt but its obvs not getting through to you
me: i'd rather u be straight and i know, im just saying when your ready...ill be willing to wait, unless you dont have feelings for me anymore
her: all i have done is be straight with you, ive said no
me: f*** man, if your not intrested tell me, ur not being straight, all I can make of you is your afraid to get close incase you get hurt
her: I have, i dont want a bf
me: so even though we liked each other for ages, and i remember you saying how nice it would be if we could work out, its all coz you dont want a bf? awesome, im sorry you feel that way..
her: yep
and thats it, nothing more I can do man. I've said all i wanted and can, I tried fighting for her I really did, I tried hard for her to see and her stop running away from emotions, she still ain't said nothing like she ain't intrested, she likes me, but cant be with anyone else coz of me, and cant be with me coz??? what? she feels i can do better? i treated her like a princess so maybe she thought she couldn't return that love i gave her? omfg man, i cant do nothing, i cant ask her to hangout sometime in a few months coz, it just wont happen, she has to sort herself out and come to me...what do you make of it all people? and would she remember