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cassie_v
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Ok, I don't want to sound like I'm conceided about getting money or anything...But heres my story..
I'm 18 & a single mother..my daughter was recently born premature at 1 pd 14 oz..she's my little miracle..For SSI it states that if a child is born under a certain weight then they are eligible for it. I was wondering if anyone had any experience with this & how u went about things. Like how long did it take, what did you need to do, how much money you got? And I was also hoping to get a welfare check..The father wants a paternity test but I'm soo scared to give him one b/c I realy dont want him to pay child support bc then he has rights to her & I just want him completely out of our lives.The only reasons why I want all of this help is b/c when my daughter comes home she will need to be watched & tooken care of 24/7..i have recently moved back in with my family & they are helping me out. But I just really want to be with her & since she was born premture, she needs me there
Anyways, about the welfare check..How do I go about getting it? How does my income affect it? And about naming the father & child support? I am going to give him a paternity test, but only b/c his mother realy wants to be a grandmother to my daughter. And b/c if I don't it will look like I was just lying about him being the father.
I was hoping to return to work after she was born & also go back to college this fall..But things change & I wasn't expecting this at all. Now she needs me with her 24/7...I was actually going to try and take online classes from the college I was attending.
And plz no comments about my age & living situation. You don't know me so you don't have any right to judge me...Sometimes accidents happen & then ppl choose to make very rude comments to them. It was an accident, I'm sorry for that..but it was the best accident that has ever happend to me. I understand that being a mom is the best thing a person can ever do with her life.
I'm 18 & a single mother..my daughter was recently born premature at 1 pd 14 oz..she's my little miracle..For SSI it states that if a child is born under a certain weight then they are eligible for it. I was wondering if anyone had any experience with this & how u went about things. Like how long did it take, what did you need to do, how much money you got? And I was also hoping to get a welfare check..The father wants a paternity test but I'm soo scared to give him one b/c I realy dont want him to pay child support bc then he has rights to her & I just want him completely out of our lives.The only reasons why I want all of this help is b/c when my daughter comes home she will need to be watched & tooken care of 24/7..i have recently moved back in with my family & they are helping me out. But I just really want to be with her & since she was born premture, she needs me there
Anyways, about the welfare check..How do I go about getting it? How does my income affect it? And about naming the father & child support? I am going to give him a paternity test, but only b/c his mother realy wants to be a grandmother to my daughter. And b/c if I don't it will look like I was just lying about him being the father.
I was hoping to return to work after she was born & also go back to college this fall..But things change & I wasn't expecting this at all. Now she needs me with her 24/7...I was actually going to try and take online classes from the college I was attending.
And plz no comments about my age & living situation. You don't know me so you don't have any right to judge me...Sometimes accidents happen & then ppl choose to make very rude comments to them. It was an accident, I'm sorry for that..but it was the best accident that has ever happend to me. I understand that being a mom is the best thing a person can ever do with her life.