weirdness after sex with new boyfriend?

[Kimberley S]

Me and my boyfriend had sex for the 1st time last night, and it was over with really quickly. He'd already said he gets nervous and doesn't last long, which i said was ok practice makes perfect!

But this morning then he was really cuddly or affectionate at all, it was as tho he was really pissed of at himself or then regretting doing it. When i asked him he said he was ok. But I sense that somethings not quite right.

Do you think i'm just overreacting or is he regretting it?

 

[partygirll]

you need to tell him how you feel!!!!!!
let him know ur worried and ask if he regrets it? he should tell you the truth

 

[confusedbabes]

no i dont think he would of regretted it. ask him. say youve done something that was really important and a "big deal" for you and now he's being off with you and its not fair.

just keep asking, mabye hes just having a bad day?

 

[barrelracer707]

Give him to time to process this. You just had sex for the first time and he needs to process how he feels about this. Give him a day and dont worry bout it some guys just arent cuddlers after sex

 

[joyrex44]

maybe he was just nervous and wanted it to be perfect

 

[Kiwi]

sounds like he let himself down, nothing to get in a panic about, or his just being normal couldnt careless about what happened.

 

[Geo]

he's probably just embarrassed with his performance, I wouldn't worry

 

[Melon Hero]

He was probably disappointed with his performance. Don't try to cheer him up by referring to the sex, he will feel worse.

 

[Dewey D]

You're too easy. He wants a challenge. He will get rid of you soon. Sorry. That's the way it works with men.

 

[Ahmed R]

first ur over reacting.... second hes just bothered about what happened and like u said practice makes perfect.. so am sure ur second time ull find him different and more happier

 

[Alice]

That sorta thing is a real cruch 2 a mans confidence.

Just let him knw ur not offended, upset or have any kinda problem with it.
Remind him that its being with him that you enjoy and thats the most important thing not how long a "session" lasts.

 

[Flared24 (Tom)]

He's regretting what happened. I used to get all worked up about stuff like that when I was younger. I would constantly think about things I did wrong and I was usually nervous as well.

It has nothing to do with you; his own actions that make him feel this way. Whether he was really bad or not, he's just obsessing over it since he doesn't want to let it out. He probably thinks it might make him seem weak, but he's acting like he has no confidence now.

I remember a long time ago when I got my first BJ, it took me forever to orgasm and the girl gave up after around 20 minutes. I felt like a douchebag since I made her take so long. Of course it felt really damn good, but I don't know what happened. I kept thinking of the experience days after it happened.

Good luck!