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marty m
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I work in an office. Theres this french girl. Shes in a different team and sits around 50 metres away from. We dont do the same job and dont need to have any interaction with each other during the day. In fact Ive never even spoken to her.....
The issue is everytime she walks past me she:
looks down or away from me or very rudely tuts, sighs and shakes her head with a disgusted look on her face....
IT GETS WORSE
over the last few weeks, things have got even more bizzare...
Not only does she continue with the above, She now:
Avoids walking past my desk - (which she would have to do to go to the toilet and the lifts). Instead she goes all around the other side of the building and takes the stairs!!! Again, if she see me waiting for a lift, she takes the stairs. she TOTALLY avoids me.
What shall I do....I suppose the "official" route would bell talking to my manager........But I would like to ask her myself as politly as I can what her problem is but I dont know how to go about it. PLUS I wouldnt get a chance as she avoids me
I dont fancy her or anything, I just think if we all have to sit in an office all day, we might as well be polite, grown up and get along. Its really irritating and its really starting to bug me
I wanna start by saying "hello" then how does this sound.....help me finish it:
"I cant help noticing that everytime you see me in the office, you try to avoid me. Have I offended you in anyway" Does this sound ok, how else can I say it????
Thanks
The issue is everytime she walks past me she:
looks down or away from me or very rudely tuts, sighs and shakes her head with a disgusted look on her face....
IT GETS WORSE
over the last few weeks, things have got even more bizzare...
Not only does she continue with the above, She now:
Avoids walking past my desk - (which she would have to do to go to the toilet and the lifts). Instead she goes all around the other side of the building and takes the stairs!!! Again, if she see me waiting for a lift, she takes the stairs. she TOTALLY avoids me.
What shall I do....I suppose the "official" route would bell talking to my manager........But I would like to ask her myself as politly as I can what her problem is but I dont know how to go about it. PLUS I wouldnt get a chance as she avoids me
I dont fancy her or anything, I just think if we all have to sit in an office all day, we might as well be polite, grown up and get along. Its really irritating and its really starting to bug me
I wanna start by saying "hello" then how does this sound.....help me finish it:
"I cant help noticing that everytime you see me in the office, you try to avoid me. Have I offended you in anyway" Does this sound ok, how else can I say it????
Thanks