i have a psycho ex who i broke up with three years ago. he stalked me and tried to have girls jump me when i went away to albany. he would message my little sister who never met him. now he tells me i was the best he ever had meanwhile he raped me. i had a restraining order put against him but it expired. i tried to get another but he changed his identity because he claimed identity theft. if my fiance ever came face to face with this ex im afraid he will murder him. what do i do?