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Weird or not? Help! (mature women only)?
- Thread starter Jen
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It isn't the only way to get rid of these feelings. Go read a book on darwin or something, people.
It could either be sexual desires or the very matronly desire to care fr something. If it's sexual desire, then sure masturbation would definitely help there.
But if its the the biological desire to care about something or take care of something that many women get, then i'd suggest getting a puppy or becoming a baby sitter. both of those really help girls i know get that out of their system.
It could either be sexual desires or the very matronly desire to care fr something. If it's sexual desire, then sure masturbation would definitely help there.
But if its the the biological desire to care about something or take care of something that many women get, then i'd suggest getting a puppy or becoming a baby sitter. both of those really help girls i know get that out of their system.
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hangiing on.
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im 16 turning 17 in two months.
&& i have a 4 month year old baby.
DONT DO IT. trust me.
&& you can have sex, just protect yourself very well.
or there's always masturbation.
&& i have a 4 month year old baby.
DONT DO IT. trust me.
&& you can have sex, just protect yourself very well.
or there's always masturbation.
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Maryshaye
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hey im turning 17 tomorrow and believe me i have ben through those feelings too.... but its really not worth it.. just try to put those feelings aside.. get a job babysitting or something. i hope i helped some.
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DivaSTaR
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I'm Genophobic... so I don't know how to answer. But, I know that most teenage girls want to have an baby. Most tennage girls think pregnancy is cool, but it's not. Pregnancy is bad, immature, nasty, and rude. And it's painful. Would you rather push your womb, or go to an Madonna concert. I rather go to an Madonna concert, rather than sit in an hospital after 9 months of pregnancy, trying to push an baby out of my own body. YUCK!!!!
If you do get pregnant, abortion is the best choice.
If you do get pregnant, abortion is the best choice.
areyouserious
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well it is normal for young girls to have feelings like yours and to crave a child, sometimes because they dont feel like they have enough love. but just wait and use your head. if you want ot get rid of your Sexual tensions just take a nap, use the bathroom, shower - cold, exercise or just watch tv to get your mind else where. you will be fine this is normal we all experience it. BTW- IM 15 SO I DONT KNOW IF IM MATURE
Kayce the Knight
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Masturbation is the only want to rid yourself of sexual desires, unless of course you think about STD's, which usually helps me.
I think it's normal, a lot of girls are anxious to have a family. You probably just like children a lot and therefore really like the idea of it.
I think it's normal, a lot of girls are anxious to have a family. You probably just like children a lot and therefore really like the idea of it.
That is normal (really), your hormones are out of control, but a good friend of mine felt the same way and intentionally got pregnant at 16. She then said 'holy shit what was I thinking' and promptly got an abortion. And although she never regretted the abortion, she suffered emotionally for a long time afterwards. Now, at 28, we are both pregnant, and although in my case this pregnancy was planned and wanted by both my fiance and I, let me tell you, it is no walk in the park. I am 12 weeks along and feel nothing but exhausted and fat. I weighed 113 pounds when I got pregnant and tipped the scales today at 126. Peeing all the time, feeling like a lethargic slug...ugh!
Anyway, sometimes you can trust your feelings, and sometimes you can't. Feeling like you want to be pregnant and have a baby is NORMAL, but be strong if you can, don't listen to this little voice in your head, and don't act on it. I think most girls who give birth in their teens would totally agree with that statement. And if you can be strong and resist the urge to have sex, I really think you'll thank yourself for it later. Children conceived in a loving, committed relationship will have fewer challenges in life -- it is a selfless gift to your future children if you can be patient.
You'll also thank yourself for waiting when you hear other girls complain that the boy they gave it up to left them, or cheated on them, they are worried about an STD, or have been branded as a slut, or feel dirty afterwards, or whatever.
I don't think you can make the feelings go away...but maybe you can redirect your attention elsewhere once they set in? Like on art or exercise (so then you won't want to be pregnant and lose your figure!) or something? It is a big challenge to confront these feelings, as there is no denying that they are very powerful and do indeed feel wonderful when the time is right, and I wish you the best of luck.
Anyway, sometimes you can trust your feelings, and sometimes you can't. Feeling like you want to be pregnant and have a baby is NORMAL, but be strong if you can, don't listen to this little voice in your head, and don't act on it. I think most girls who give birth in their teens would totally agree with that statement. And if you can be strong and resist the urge to have sex, I really think you'll thank yourself for it later. Children conceived in a loving, committed relationship will have fewer challenges in life -- it is a selfless gift to your future children if you can be patient.
You'll also thank yourself for waiting when you hear other girls complain that the boy they gave it up to left them, or cheated on them, they are worried about an STD, or have been branded as a slut, or feel dirty afterwards, or whatever.
I don't think you can make the feelings go away...but maybe you can redirect your attention elsewhere once they set in? Like on art or exercise (so then you won't want to be pregnant and lose your figure!) or something? It is a big challenge to confront these feelings, as there is no denying that they are very powerful and do indeed feel wonderful when the time is right, and I wish you the best of luck.