...bad for him. Should i talk? Im in Secondary turned 16 last month &doing my alevels (Sixthform/Highschool as you may call it, and yes I am new to this school) so there's this weird nerdy kid in my class. He never speaks. Like, at all. At first I thought he was mute or something. A week ago our school organized a trip and I was forced to sit w him.The bus took about 45min to get to where we were going. He started to write weird nazi symbols on his left hand with a pen and kept doing this and showing it to everyone all day. He turned around & told me if I would like one written on my head. I said no. He's extremely withdrawn, like he only spoke 2-3 times that day, and he only says about 3-4 words or just nods or shakes his head.
He constantly mumbles to himself under his breath, he never smiles and always speaks in this really harsh voice. If I asked him something hed either ignore me or say 'it doesn't matter' in a really harsh kind of voice. He'll never hold a conversation and he doesn't seem to have any friends.He swears quite a lot, threatened to kill the teacher of a class he didn't like, and has this really intense looking gaze in his eyes (he stares a lot and literally has no expression on his face)the entire time our way back he didn't move or talk, just head down and staring, for the entire 45 minutes.He never seems to care about anything,all he talks about is violent stuff(like the vgs he plays, other violent things ect)he has this really creepy monotonious voice which he speaks in and he never seems to be excited, or happy like the other kids.He seems agitated or like he's about to snap at someone, he just sits there, fidgeting with his fingers with his head down all through class and lunch.
The only info I got was he had an illness called Asperger Syndrome but thats all (my bro has it and hes just socially awkward)He doesn't like giving info about himself so I cant get to know him and tell if he's just weird or unstable I don't know.I am new to this school so I want to be friends with people, but this kid in my class is just very distracting. None of my friends in class really know much about him either. On Friday I overheard him in the cafeteria talking about a kid who pissed him off (he strangled him because he pissed him off) so I know what he can do if he's provoked.
Does he sound just like a strange loner or something else?Im just really paranoid since the VTech shootings & school loners who act the same..I myself am really really shy.I feel kinda bad because he's been there since yr7but he has none or barely any friends.Should I try talking w him? if so how should I do that? should i approach him at all?dos and donts?i need opinions..
ill need some help b4 monday becuz im at school by then
He constantly mumbles to himself under his breath, he never smiles and always speaks in this really harsh voice. If I asked him something hed either ignore me or say 'it doesn't matter' in a really harsh kind of voice. He'll never hold a conversation and he doesn't seem to have any friends.He swears quite a lot, threatened to kill the teacher of a class he didn't like, and has this really intense looking gaze in his eyes (he stares a lot and literally has no expression on his face)the entire time our way back he didn't move or talk, just head down and staring, for the entire 45 minutes.He never seems to care about anything,all he talks about is violent stuff(like the vgs he plays, other violent things ect)he has this really creepy monotonious voice which he speaks in and he never seems to be excited, or happy like the other kids.He seems agitated or like he's about to snap at someone, he just sits there, fidgeting with his fingers with his head down all through class and lunch.
The only info I got was he had an illness called Asperger Syndrome but thats all (my bro has it and hes just socially awkward)He doesn't like giving info about himself so I cant get to know him and tell if he's just weird or unstable I don't know.I am new to this school so I want to be friends with people, but this kid in my class is just very distracting. None of my friends in class really know much about him either. On Friday I overheard him in the cafeteria talking about a kid who pissed him off (he strangled him because he pissed him off) so I know what he can do if he's provoked.
Does he sound just like a strange loner or something else?Im just really paranoid since the VTech shootings & school loners who act the same..I myself am really really shy.I feel kinda bad because he's been there since yr7but he has none or barely any friends.Should I try talking w him? if so how should I do that? should i approach him at all?dos and donts?i need opinions..
ill need some help b4 monday becuz im at school by then