We just cant stop arguing" HELPPPPP?

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me and my girlfriend always argue about the fact that im stubborn and many other things after i cheated on her. I told her i was sorry for the past year and we always have arguments every week. No matter how much or what i do or say i just cant seem to understand why we argue all the time its obvious that we might be fighting because she excepted me back and she is fighting her own morals that she shouldnt have well we are about to get married in the next 6 months i want her to be happy and make her the happiest women i know i shouldnt have done what i have and we spoke about it and everything but we always argue. i take her to places and even proposed to her so she know im serious and committed she said yes. one thing that happened today was that she started telling me that im stubborn i dont show or think ahead of time for certain things or i neglect her im not strong or independent. and she wanted me to reply back to her and i said look im sorry im all that or may be like that sometimes and i appreciate that you telling me this because it shows that you care and she just stared at me i do not get it at times what else can i do at that moment. then we argued some more and i stayed quite she asked me why im not talking and i said im been trying to be careful of what i been doing and how im acting towards the way you tell me but its like you dont see that and your just stuck at one point. Then she said well your trying to say you been careful and all but this should already come natural when she said that i said ok leave it then i left cuz the whole day thats all i can take. if im going wrong somewhere tell me or what ever im doing or not doing im just confused now ahhhhhhhh help