My husband and I finally had our talk about us swinging. We found out that it's more of me wanting him to be happy, although I AM curious about having another man ravage me 
We came to an agreement that we'll first try a 3-some with a guy and set some basic rules.
He also bought up the subject of my libido, which were confusing him of my desires FOR him.
Unintentionally, I've been "scheduling him" for sex, according to him.
So, my question is this...By me wanting to have sex with my husband @ twice a week or so(scheduled?) and to say that I want to try swinging, am I sending him the wrong "message"? or is it just a misunderstanding on his part or am I "reading into it" too much?
I want to try swinging and I really do want this to be a great experience for BOTH of us and it would be a heck of a turn on for me to be with another guy and to see him pleased by me after wards when we get home, or when the guy leaves our home.
Any comments? NO putting me down or telling me how bad all this is please. Don't need/want any negative comments.
We came to an agreement that we'll first try a 3-some with a guy and set some basic rules.
He also bought up the subject of my libido, which were confusing him of my desires FOR him.
Unintentionally, I've been "scheduling him" for sex, according to him.
So, my question is this...By me wanting to have sex with my husband @ twice a week or so(scheduled?) and to say that I want to try swinging, am I sending him the wrong "message"? or is it just a misunderstanding on his part or am I "reading into it" too much?
I want to try swinging and I really do want this to be a great experience for BOTH of us and it would be a heck of a turn on for me to be with another guy and to see him pleased by me after wards when we get home, or when the guy leaves our home.
Any comments? NO putting me down or telling me how bad all this is please. Don't need/want any negative comments.